By this time Oliver finally told me what it was all about, no wonder he had behaved as he had, he must have been petrified, bless him. Someone had either said to him or in front of him the following.
Whats going to happen to Oliver when his mummy's back gets even worse. Where will he live & who will look after him. Nicola will be too bad to cope with a young child & definitely won't be able to look after him. Grandma Carol is getting old & she won't want a child round the house all the time. So whats going to happen to Oliver?
I just could not believe anyone could be so vindictive & cruel to say things like that to a little boy who's not quite 5! It is just evil! God help me or maybe whoever said it, when Oliver finally tells me where it came from & he will tell me eventually.
The poor little mite had been thinking & dwelling on those vicious lies for about 4wks before he finally told me what it was all about. He has needed a lot of attention, love (which he always gets lots of) & reassurances. He is now confident that no matter what happens to me with my back, i will always be able to look after him & he will always live with me! It has taken what seems like forever to get his smiles back, but thankfully he is more or less back to himself again.
I would like to thank the ladies of CoC for helping to make him smile. Carolyn very kindly requested a card shower for him & they all stepped up to the mark wonderfully. Carolyn sent him two Steve Parish books (he loves them) & a wonderful keyring. PatM sent a huge envelope full of stickers & Sheila has been sending him all sorts of goodies! The other wonderful ladies of CoC have sent him some gorgeous cards & all sorts of stickers. He was getting so excited when the post came & when he saw an envelope with his name, he grinned from ear to ear. So thank you again ladies, for helping my wonderful little boy find his smile. I can never thank you enough!
I will quickly tell you about the photo's.The little blue booties are parchment, they are just too small to get a good detailed picture i'm afraid. They are embossed & perforated, then the upper sown to the sole. They are just under 5cm's in length.
The fairy card is the card my mum made for my birthday, hasn't she done a wonderful job! The fairy & dragonflies are made from fantasy film. I just love this card, it is so me!
The bottom card is from Iris. It is just stunning when you see it. Thank you so much Iris, i adore this card.
Thank you to all the wonderful ladies that sent me such gorgeous birthday cards, i have never ever had so many! Unfortunately due to my back & everything else going on, i still have not had chance to scan/photograph them. But i promise you ladies i will get them scanned & let everyone see them. Too many to show on here, so i will put them in my photobucket & post the link here. I will post the odd one when i come on here.
Anyway, off to bed, been sat here far too long, hopefully i will be able to get back up LOL!!




















